You Actually Have to Care

I had a long video call with an old friend recently. His name’s Billy and he told me something during the call that moved me deeply. The concept is pan-applicable and not in any way profound, but I found it to be a serious perspective check for me. Here’s the background. We go back almostContinue reading “You Actually Have to Care”

Being Seen

My first experience of Trans Day of Visibility was in 2020, just two years ago. It had already been several years since I’d admitted to myself that I was transgender, but I hadn’t involved myself in the trans community. This was partly out of fear of what I would find and partly out of fearContinue reading “Being Seen”

Book Review: This Is How It Always Is

My beloved spouse and I have very different tastes in reading material both fiction and non-fiction. But every now and again, one of us will come across a book that we know will resonate for the other. Such was the case with “This Is How It Always Is.”  A friend of ours loaned K theContinue reading “Book Review: This Is How It Always Is”